5 signs she's into you!

[Alpha]

Five signs your date is into you…

 

1. She tilts her head

“When a woman sees and feels especially comfortable with a man, she will tilt her head,” Hartley says. A tilt in any direction — right, left or down — are all signs that she’s interested in getting to know you better—say, over another date.

 

2. She takes a sip when you take a sip

When a woman is drawn to a guy, she’ll instinctively mirror his actions, Hartley says. While men do this, too, women are more likely than men to first begin the copying. What should you look for? “You might notice she will shift her body in the same direction as yours or take your lead for behavior changes like picking up a glass to drink or blinking her eyes repeatedly if you’re doing so,” he suggests. If you want to test her, lean forward and see if she comes closer, too.

 

3. She twirls her hair

Since the beginning of time, a woman’s hair has been celebrated as a symbol of her sexuality (does the story of Samson and Delilah ring a bell?). And it’s true today, says Hartley: If your date begins twirling or playing with her hair while talking to you, it is a good sign she’s into you and subconsciously trying to attract you.

 

4. She gets a glow

While blushing often means embarrassment, don’t assume that her rosy cheeks are an indication of discomfort. When a woman is sexually aroused and attracted, blood flows not only to her nether regions, but also to her face, which causes her cheeks to get redder, Hartley explains. And if your date is smitten, he adds, her lips and even eyelids will get fuller, too, he says.

 

5. Her pupils dilate

While your gaze is fixed on her, pay particular attention to her pupils, advises Hartley. “When a woman is attracted to a man, her pupils will dilate,” he notes. “Essentially, the body does this in order to allow itself to take in more of a good thing.”

 

…and five signs your date is not into you

 

1. She crosses her arms

Did she assume the angry librarian stance? “When a woman on a date places her hands in front of her body — especially if they are crossed — she is closing herself off from the man,” Hartley notes. If you get this red flag, you don’t stand a chance… and she wants you to know it. “Men are not nearly as perceptive as women, so even if she’s not consciously aware of it, a woman knows her body language needs to be very loud,” Hartley explains. “In this instance, that body language reads loud and clear.”

 

2. She places her bag between your two

“When I ask male friends how a blind date went, step-by-step, and they say‘she put her bag on the table,’ I always know that’s a bad sign,” Hartley says. If your date places her purse — a real and physical barrier — between you two, she’s showing she wants to create distance, he says. Not a good sign.

 

3. She speaks faster than an auctioneer

So she seems to love talking to you? Before you break open the bubbly, note the speed of her small talk. “Romantic conversation does not occur at the same speed as business conversation,” Hartley says. “Conversation between two people who are attracted typically slows to about three-quarter speed and softens. In fact, most emotional conversation — with the exception of very hostile conversation — is at a slowed cadence.” That said, she may be nervous early in your first date, and her nerves can cause her to spit her sentences out rapid-fire. But if by the end of the evening she’s still going at a rapid rate, consider it a clue that she just wants to be friends at best.

 

4. She offers you a chin-up smile

Though it’s tempting to interpret any old smile as a sign of interest, all smiles are not created equal. Smiles can say a lot— “I’m polite,” “I’m crazy about you,” and, believe it or not, “I can’t stand you.” The secret to decoding what her smile really means? It’s all in the chin placement. A woman who gives you a relaxed, chin-down “soft smile” is smitten and wants you to dig her back, Hartley explains. A full-on toothpaste grin or stiff and polite smile — both of which generally involve the chin raised up — mean either “I like you as a friend” or “I wanna get out of here!”

 

5. She strokes her neck

If your date’s telling you she agrees that you should get together again, that’s a good sign, right? Maybe, says Hartley. “Her body language may be the key to the real truth,” he says. “If a woman is gently stroking her neck when telling you this, it may be a sign that she’s interested, but it is also known to be a sign of lying.” To figuring out which message she’s sending, consider the aforementioned “she’s not into you” signals. If she’s also giving you the raised-chin smile and speaking to you over a giant purse, you may want to move on to your next prospect.

 

Source: http://msn.match.com/msn/article.aspx?arti...49&menuid=6

Don't forget to read: 5 signs a man is into a woman.

 

I'd have to agree with most of the stuff said on here. It seems pretty legitimate. For example, the pupils dilating and the rosy cheeks would explain her heart beating faster for you. Twirling hair would be a sign of nervousness and that she's just excited as you are to get bonded. Anyway, I'd write this stuff down if none of you have heard these tips before. It's a good list to follow if you think the girl is attracted to your or not. Of course, it's no where near a 100%, but it's at least something to look for.

[Fatal Rose]

Wow thanks.

[Exp44]

Yes thanks, for once I get tips that might actually mean something.

[Wizard]

Why do you post things to me when I'm asleep?

[Tynvar]

Interesting. Does it work for wives too? I wonder if she still reacts like that...

[Bambi]

I do most of those things

[Alpha]

I do most of those things

+1 for female approval!

 

I wish more people replied to this thread.

 

I'm sure many secretly wrote down this stuff on their notepad *cough*Drake/Davis*cough* with no thanks to the original poster (YOU LEECHERS! ).

 

Most of this stuff makes sense too. It's not like it's far out there with woman beginning to dance around in twirls when they see a man they like.

[Lucandrake]

I refuse to believe the internet can bring about 1 on 1 (or even 1 on 3 ) relations with females.

 

I'm a Man godamn it! A MAN!

[Bambi]

I do most of those things

+1 for female approval!

 

I wish more people replied to this thread.

 

I'm sure many secretly wrote down this stuff on their notepad *cough*Drake/Davis*cough* with no thanks to the original poster (YOU LEECHERS! ).

 

Most of this stuff makes sense too. It's not like it's far out there with woman beginning to dance around in twirls when they see a man they like.

 

Today was the first time I read this and I thought for a few minutes about all the ways I do these things all the time.

[megaman_zer0]

Nice tips, however, i believe in only my own "strength".

[Alpha]

Nice tips, however, i believe in only my own "strength".

"Strength", what does that mean? Mental strength or physical strength?

 

I'm thinking you meant physical, so does that mean your broad shoulders and muscular body or in SuperSoka's words ... your dong? Enlighten us please because I have no idea what you're talking about.