So there is a chick in my school

[Shibathedog]

No there i something wrong with asking about it here and all this planning and thinking. The reason why this is hard is because your thinking about it too much and freaking yourself out about it. Just be casual and act like it doesnt really matter/you dont care.

 

Worst thing that could happen is she says no, and then your in the same place you are now, not with her, Best thing that could happen is she says yes.

 

So you can try, and either lose nothing and its not a big deal, or possibly end up with this hot chick (im assuming shes hot lol)

 

or if you dont try, you definatly stay where you are now.

 

just go up to her like shes one of your friends and act completley like yourself, trust me, if she doesnt like you when you acting yourself you DO NOT WANT TO BE WITH HER, it will just end up being a crappy relationship, so act yourself its not worth it.

 

As for getting high, yeah i guess that could help but if shes the type that hates that kind of stuff it will screw you over

[Shoma]

Where's the Love Cop when he's needed?

 

4GET THE LOVECOP!

This is a "Ask SHoma" moment right here! YEEEEEAH!

Okay listen closely------------

You have to picture her as some ordinary girl, in some cases this would seem impossible but you can by being spontaneous and not trying hard. Her body and looks are mostly irrevalent, the most important part is her social status which you're not familiar on. You should know this to see who she hangs out with whats her style, even though its seems stereo-typical its your best bet.

However we dont have time for that! So your best move is come up to her in humorous form and get to her laugh. If your not the funny type then just walk up to her care-free and not afraid to speak your mind. The whole "Cool Act" has changed since GC's golden days^^, by that i mean if you show her that you keep it real she should feel comfortable with you. Now if you're the funny type you could joke an "ask out" and see what she says but thats risky and highly UNrecommended!

The sure way is to jump calm and collective or humorous and let time go on while still talking to her.

Wait while, not too long or you'll be in the friend zone(the friend zone is okay, but this route takes more longer but is safer).

I usually after a couple days of talking, i keep my distance then randomly make jokes like, "SO how about we go to Olive Garden tonight". Since i don't know her i cant assume she takes into those jokes so final solution is a clean, NOT stiffed up, approach!

Approach her as if you didn't have becoming gf and bf in your mind.

But a personal note is the fact that you're not too confident in your "game" may prove that you cant temporary alter your mind-frame so you wont feel nervous but either way, I HAVE FAITH IN YOU!

HIT A HOME RUN AND PARTY LIKE A ROCK STAR!

[Mooney]

Just go for it. Go for it now or you'll regret it forever... ... or until you find another girl.

[Shoma]

Nonsense! You better not JUSt go 4 it, or she'll break your heart and you'll feel lonely and alone... wishing no one to be happy, but be as miserable as I----errmm-----you are......

*tear falls*

 

seriously, just going for it is the easy and common way to do it....but risky as well!

Edited May 2, 2007 by Shoma

[Robert]

Drake, I just hope that whatever you do (or don't do), it works out.

[Shoma]

Step 1: get HiGh

Step 2: Go for it. And stop being a little biatch!

lmao! THat's some sexy advice right there.^^

[gizmo_ult]

if you need help i can help you if you sit near here ask for something as the start pen, ect. then after that just keep doing for a while and then when you feel it's ok introduce yourself or you can do that first trust me it always works and if she talks about something act like interested and understand and for some reason they fall for that or you can complement her on her looks after you introduce yourself that is all i know and it works

[gymnist1026]

since it is for a class and finals are coming up, try getting her to study with you at a local book store/coffee shop. Since it is studying it gives you an excuse to talk to her and also, when studying with people, the conversation does tend to not always be on the scholarly stuff. Dont go for gold the first day, just try to be able to build up state where you both are able to freely talk to each other...

[Rawrthness]

well if you like her i say wait till class is over and talk to her and walk her to her locker or her next class or something or wait till lunch even

[Robert]

Drake hasn't visited since his post (#6 above), so maybe it did work out.

[Mooney]

Drake hasn't visited since his post (#6 above), so maybe it did work out.

Or maybe he got totally rejected so he's avoiding this thread out of shame and sorrow.

[Elazul Yagami]

i didn't bother looking through this thread to read the replies.

but the best advice i can give you, is just be yourself

don't attempt to impress the girl

and don't make a big deal out of talking to her, just do so.,

[Lucandrake]

Sorry I haven't replied, but lately a bunch of my problems have been revolving around my computer time so now I get layed off until the weekends. Thanks for all your advice, and here is what happened today (btw I didn't read the advice when this happened however I shall attempt the carefree attitude).

 

Today, I went to the councilors office, I just wanted to see her, for some reason she's always acting as the councilors secretary so 9 out of 10 visits I get to see her (btw whenever I come in or leave she always smiles at me, but she's a jumpy girl so I would assume this be normal). We talked for a bit, again nothing casual, until she calls her friend, turns out it's her bday and she throws me a crazy story about her and why she was cracking her butt off. She seems embarrassed to be around me at times, or it seems likes she hiding it since she's always insulting herself when I just look at her (even though she doesn't realized I'm looking at her not because I think she's crazy but because I have nothing to say). Anyways I was sweating the entire time because it was just me and her in the room, I couldn't talk at all, and she literally made me repeat myself at least 10 times because I was attempting to talk but couldn't get words out of my mouth. After that her friends and the councilor finally arrived at the office, at which point we where in the outside room waiting for the councilor and one of the students to finish a session, while this wait I just sat down and heard her talk to her friends, and I loved it, just listening to her she's always laughing, I like it because I'm rarely amused, I act amused online but I'm the quiet guy in rl, can't help it. But I got a good/bad situation.

 

1.Good, the councilor has a "thing" that, the majority of the females seeing her, are lesbians, turns out Mellisa (that's her name) isn't.

 

2.Bad, the way I found out, was by her starting to talk to her friends about her boyfriend, who's Mexican, and is 20 years old (she's 16).

 

So now the only thing I can do (as much as I want to attempt a friendship with her, girls that leave their current boyfriends for a new one being you, usually do the same to you at a later date), is either

 

1.Stick around and miracles happen (last year this happened, I knew someone I liked, broke up with her boyfriend for stupid reasons, and instead of taking my chance I encouraged her to make it work with him again (even though he's meh)).

 

2.Just let it go (which I want to but at the same time I don't because I've never met someone else like her).

 

I'm done typing, I must UT to calm myself down and get ready for more final study's .

 

Just to clear things up, the age difference isn't to much of a big deal down here...

[Weirdy]

forget her

 

She'll probably end up getting knocked up

[Lucandrake]

Godamn weirdy lol. Harsh there .