veristic Posted April 14, 2004 Posted April 14, 2004 (edited) What else happened at lunch? Did she keep finding reasons to touch you? Did she want to sit close to you? Like thigh to thigh close? How was she acting? I need to know so I can give my best advice. I and my high morals want to help you out.Signs for attraction aren't always physical my friend. I'm assuming in yur normal routine for u, since yur what... the attractive type n not mention physically fit, it's more physical. However, it isn't so common with the shy gurls, like the one Plastic seems to be dealing with. Btw, 'I and my high morals'? Hahah, r u being sarcastic or r u serious? Edited April 14, 2004 by nyuuka
Cominus Posted April 14, 2004 Posted April 14, 2004 expect the worst n hope for the best.You're flocking dumb dude, it's Prepare for the worst, hope for the best. no biggie smalls
veristic Posted April 14, 2004 Posted April 14, 2004 expect the worst n hope for the best.You're flocking dumb dude, it's Prepare for the worst, hope for the best. no biggie smalls Same difference fool. There r variations to a lot of sayings, what u learned isn't what others have learned, get a clue.
Captain FuKu Posted April 14, 2004 Posted April 14, 2004 Just be direct about it from the get go -- no nonsense style, and none of that beating around the bush crap. This way, you save yourself time and wasted energy. If she's not into you, fine, you move on to other chicks who are; and you've saved yourself from fustrations from wasting time and energy wondering this and that over just one chick. If she is into you, great; and you've saved yourself time and many possible ackward moments between the two of you. Just be aware of the innate female tendency to lead on a male with subtle signals of possible hope when really there may be none -- females love to string around clueless guys; they love to have admirers around them at all times. Don't fall into that trap, and don't become one of those guys. That's why I'm telling you to be blunt and honest about your intentions and feelings when communicating with her -- this way, you save yourself from a lot of female bullshit and drama; plus it makes you more confident, which is an attractive trait to females.
Gryph Posted April 14, 2004 Posted April 14, 2004 I say you should take her into your arms and give her a nice big smooch. And say something cool like "Gimme some suger, baby!" or "All hail to king!" It could work...especially if she likes Army of Darkness.
Cominus Posted April 14, 2004 Posted April 14, 2004 Ok took her out to lunch, everything went really well, but... afterwards it was kind of like "insert emotion here" but no emotion came, I must have been expecting to be giddy or somthing, but i was kind of like whatever... oh well, Ill see what develops from this. c yaYou flocked up man, well some what, you should have asked her to "go out with you" again or her phone number "if you dont already have it. If she said no then thats when you back off and either keep it as friends or be a real jerk and not talk to her anymore. If she's "really" shy not the BS one then she's waiting for you to make a move, like try to find a reason to get close to her. Go to the movies and hold her hand, yeah corny but hey you'll know just what level she likes you. "It's all depends on your skills, face it straight"<--where'd that come from?
PLasticSlug Posted April 14, 2004 Author Posted April 14, 2004 When i said"afterwards it was kind of like "insert emotion here" but no emotion came, I must have been expecting to be giddy or somthing, but i was kind of like whatever".. The 3 things to drive me to say that are1. She is really board of living where we live and desperatly wants to move to the other side of the country, to finish her schooling" which upon acceptence she will be gone. (I would never do long distance)2. She made it a point that she is single, but made it an even bigger point to say she still hangs out with her X on a regular basis. (so do i so i cant really complain)3. Im just not feeling it right now. Personally I literally have nothing to say nor think about, right now- which is not a good sign for somone who i was dying to talk to.I just got to let it play out, were still too "new" to see where this is going. But im defently going to get to know her better and see where this can lead.
Fatal Rose Posted April 14, 2004 Posted April 14, 2004 What else happened at lunch? Did she keep finding reasons to touch you? Did she want to sit close to you? Like thigh to thigh close? How was she acting? I need to know so I can give my best advice. I and my high morals want to help you out.Signs for attraction aren't always physical my friend. I'm assuming in yur normal routine for u, since yur what... the attractive type n not mention physically fit, it's more physical. However, it isn't so common with the shy gurls, like the one Plastic seems to be dealing with. Btw, 'I and my high morals'? Hahah, r u being sarcastic or r u serious? A little of both.
Cominus Posted April 14, 2004 Posted April 14, 2004 When i said"afterwards it was kind of like "insert emotion here" but no emotion came, I must have been expecting to be giddy or somthing, but i was kind of like whatever".. The 3 things to drive me to say that are1. She is really board of living where we live and desperatly wants to move to the other side of the country, to finish her schooling" which upon acceptence she will be gone. (I would never do long distance)2. She made it a point that she is single, but made it an even bigger point to say she still hangs out with her X on a regular basis. (so do i so i cant really complain)3. Im just not feeling it right now. Personally I literally have nothing to say nor think about, right now- which is not a good sign for somone who i was dying to talk to.I just got to let it play out, were still too "new" to see where this is going. But im defently going to get to know her better and see where this can lead.Flock that dude, you cant let a girl take control you. Thats it damn, im gonna be you'r vanpire saviour, not hunter or dark stalker anyways, it's not very good at flocking all that she still hangs around her X, ask her if she's still into him, if "sort of" flock that Bs, and get rid of her, if not then ask if she's into anybody, if no then get with her. Time is at the floorecenes, or assasins, or extacy...it's one of those. You cant keep holding things off, other wise you will just be playing your self, i know you want to take it slow, get to know her, make her happy, but thats where you flocked up, you got to make your self happy before anybody can make you happy. Keep it even and not everything just about her, you have to keep yourself some what acountable, and no dont just blow her off just dont hang on her n@ts.
PLasticSlug Posted April 14, 2004 Author Posted April 14, 2004 this aint about no girl taking controll of me, its about the fact i wasnt really into her after the conversation, im just trying to say im not as hung on her as i was before, and where it goes from here its cool with me. the fact is i wanted to get to know her, in the process of doing so i got the fear of talking to her completed, and i saw some aspects of her personality, upon doing so im not as increadibly crazy about her as i was before. so where it goes from here, ill just let it play out.
Fatal Rose Posted April 14, 2004 Posted April 14, 2004 this aint about no girl taking controll of me, its about the fact i wasnt really into her after the conversation, im just trying to say im not as hung on her as i was before, and where it goes from here its cool with me. the fact is i wanted to get to know her, in the process of doing so i got the fear of talking to her completed, and i saw some aspects of her personality, upon doing so im not as increadibly crazy about her as i was before. so where it goes from here, ill just let it play out.At least get in those jeans man.
Cominus Posted April 14, 2004 Posted April 14, 2004 this aint about no girl taking controll of me, its about the fact i wasnt really into her after the conversation, im just trying to say im not as hung on her as i was before, and where it goes from here its cool with me. the fact is i wanted to get to know her, in the process of doing so i got the fear of talking to her completed, and i saw some aspects of her personality, upon doing so im not as increadibly crazy about her as i was before. so where it goes from here, ill just let it play out.Yeah i hear what you're saying but im not paying...(stupid disney channel thing) but anyways yeah that sux, wanting something and then you find out it sux(flocking MGS:TS) i personaly would just forget or give up the whole thing unless you really want to hit it but as far as that goes it's all up to you. FatalAt least get in those jeans man. ude is that all you think about? You and your flocking morals. j/k lol
Weirdy Posted April 14, 2004 Posted April 14, 2004 At least get in those jeans man. yes, hit it and quit it so she could turn into one of those men hating feminist that turn lesbian ...no, don't do that, that'll only make it worse
Agozer Posted April 14, 2004 Posted April 14, 2004 I say you should take her into your arms and give her a nice big smooch. And say something cool like "Gimme some suger, baby!" or "All hail to king!" It could work...especially if she likes Army of Darkness. Does that actually work or will you end up hurting in various places?
Gryph Posted April 14, 2004 Posted April 14, 2004 I say you should take her into your arms and give her a nice big smooch. And say something cool like "Gimme some suger, baby!" or "All hail to king!" It could work...especially if she likes Army of Darkness. Does that actually work or will you end up hurting in various places? It's worth a shot. What's the worst that could happen? A slap in the face? Hurt gonads? That's about it.
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