emsley Posted August 30, 2009 Author Posted August 30, 2009 I'm still sour from the last one - keeping my guard up now - thank god I know how to test them to see if they suck! Saves you a lot of time!
Hera Posted August 31, 2009 Posted August 31, 2009 About letting go...I think it's something reflective. Many years after my horrible break-up, I tend to feel the pain of it to this day. Is it because I still love him? Not really. I guess it's a pride thing. I look at "letting go" as something you acknowledge and actually appreciate. Learn what happened from that experience. Face the things you did wrong and remember the things they did wrong. I hate the whole game thing. If men would just stop fooling themselves (yes, us chicks KNOW what you're doing. We're not fooled), and go ahead and BE insecure they would go a long way. You can still be insecure and carry yourself like you're worth something. You don't have to talk out of your ass. You don't have to have a certain pose or persona. Just have some humor, intelligence and compassion and you'll be hounded by women day in and day out. Mind you, I'm talking about women here...not girls who go for a guy for social standing. Not gold diggers or just plain ol' crazies that are totally dependent on others instead of themselves making them too clingy. Anyway, feel the hurt and feel the pain. Just remember, each heartache gets worse as time goes on. Find things about yourself that you might want to improve. Not for women but for yourself. What changes you make will show. Who knows? A girl you might know could be someone of more significance later on.
emsley Posted August 31, 2009 Author Posted August 31, 2009 If you go on the attractionforums.com posts are made liek this everyday - a lot of the guys swear by game while others like my self take only what we need. (I'm a member over 500 posts helping guys who are new to it) You ever seen , me, myself and irene? That's what happened to me - that's why I had to understand call me male but things happen for a reason and I had to find out more - it was my own therapy in a way. I hate her so much - how dare she do that to me or any guy for that matter? I know "it" happens but ask your self what "it" is? No one I talked to give me a reason so I had to find my own - my therapist (long time ago) had no answers. But be sure just about everyone I told this storey too all claimed her to be evil - mean I mean I slapped her round the head when I found out - no one has said she did not disserve it - then the cheeky bitch pressed charges and gave evidence in court i was looking at nine months for assault - great just what i needed after having my suppossingly son evaporate before my eyes - she wanted me to sit in a JAIL CELL to think about what I had done? WHATEVER! Thats why the judge slapped me on the wrist. All for doing the right thing - And I loved her like really loved her a lot - so it just adds insult to injury. Then the little skank robbed my flat took my guitar and PC the only other things in my life that I loved, I spent 4 months on bail - three of with were spent in scarbrough at the coast signing bail on a bike three times a week in the pissing down rain while the sea wind slashes your face off isnt nice - i nearly fucking killed my self over there twice. This is how I see it: What I got: A son that never was. 8 months of bonding with the bump.A love of my life that ripped my heart out. Over 7 arrests and over 100 hours in police holding cells. 400 pound in attedning court and unpaid work. 170 hours community service digging through god knows what shit.The horribile feeling of never trusting again (which i worked out with my self in the end) And it also effected my dick - I cant sleep with a woman or get a boner unless I trust her and Im not kidding - it takes me forever to come... What she got: A beautiful baby boy. A rather fantastic looking black eye. And now she is hooked up with another guy and had another kid - thanks fuck face!!! Im sorry but I cant let this drop not untill something gives - I'll have my revenge one day! Anyway rambled on please continue to talk n stuff! Emsley.
Hera Posted August 31, 2009 Posted August 31, 2009 Get an American woman. 'Nuff said. Those brit girls are batty.
Inky Posted August 31, 2009 Posted August 31, 2009 You ever seen , me, myself and irene? That's what happened to me she shoved a big rubber dong in your cornhole?
Cominus Posted August 31, 2009 Posted August 31, 2009 If you go on the attractionforums.com posts are made liek this everyday - a lot of the guys swear by game while others like my self take only what we need. (I'm a member over 500 posts helping guys who are new to it) You ever seen , me, myself and irene? That's what happened to me - that's why I had to understand call me male but things happen for a reason and I had to find out more - it was my own therapy in a way. I hate her so much - how dare she do that to me or any guy for that matter? I know "it" happens but ask your self what "it" is? No one I talked to give me a reason so I had to find my own - my therapist (long time ago) had no answers. But be sure just about everyone I told this storey too all claimed her to be evil - mean I mean I slapped her round the head when I found out - no one has said she did not disserve it - then the cheeky bitch pressed charges and gave evidence in court i was looking at nine months for assault - great just what i needed after having my suppossingly son evaporate before my eyes - she wanted me to sit in a JAIL CELL to think about what I had done? WHATEVER! Thats why the judge slapped me on the wrist. All for doing the right thing - And I loved her like really loved her a lot - so it just adds insult to injury. Then the little skank robbed my flat took my guitar and PC the only other things in my life that I loved, I spent 4 months on bail - three of with were spent in scarbrough at the coast signing bail on a bike three times a week in the pissing down rain while the sea wind slashes your face off isnt nice - i nearly fucking killed my self over there twice. This is how I see it: What I got: A son that never was. 8 months of bonding with the bump.A love of my life that ripped my heart out. Over 7 arrests and over 100 hours in police holding cells. 400 pound in attedning court and unpaid work. 170 hours community service digging through god knows what shit.The horribile feeling of never trusting again (which i worked out with my self in the end) And it also effected my dick - I cant sleep with a woman or get a boner unless I trust her and Im not kidding - it takes me forever to come... What she got: A beautiful baby boy. A rather fantastic looking black eye. And now she is hooked up with another guy and had another kid - thanks fuck face!!! Im sorry but I cant let this drop not untill something gives - I'll have my revenge one day! Anyway rambled on please continue to talk n stuff! Emsley. Damn bro, you sure you weren't locked up with me, thats more or less the same story some dude told me up in county, women and bitches and str8t evil, hit it and quit it is my vote. Get an American woman. 'Nuff said. Those brit girls are batty. Ha, same shyt. They're no different besides the accents.
Skythe Posted August 31, 2009 Posted August 31, 2009 I've always been myself. Granted I ain't in or been in a relationship (cuz I really don't care for one) but if you hang with me at one of the clubs/bars I go to, you'd a swore that I must be a pimp.
emsley Posted August 31, 2009 Author Posted August 31, 2009 Yall players!!!! Aint down for this shit dawg!!!! English women are not very good.
Fatal Rose Posted September 5, 2009 Posted September 5, 2009 Paul You're a dear friend of mine. We have known each other for years and you know I am always here for you and care about you. Honestly man I think you're looking to deep into things when it comes to women (most do) and I think you're being waaaaaaaay to hard on yourself. You're a funny, nice, intelligent, and good looking guy. You can find a decent girl, they usually come around when one least expects it though. What always worked for me is my confidence, care-free attitude, dressing nice, and being a gentleman. I can't say what works for me will work for everyone but remember to be yourself. That does not mean to reveal every aspect of who you are (like all the bad/crazy stuff) right away, let it be a gradual process. Sometimes its the start of a new blessing that comes in the form of a friend/acquaintance, you never know. All I want is to see you happy, you're a funny guy.I know that your trying to make sense of everything, you just need to keep on smiling and know that everything passes with time. Do not allow societal and moral lapses bring you down, you're to smart for that.
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