Here is a quick copy and paste of alk the stuff I said to Fatal Rose over a chat... Honestly.. I think AntiWinner makes a good point. You need to know your boundaries. No offence.. It's like you listen to your dick rather than your mind. You got to listen to your mind first. She has children..which are people, JUST INGORE HER. Talk to her and tell her to stay away from you. Let her work out her own problems. Can't you see she wants to bring her problems to your life? Since she doesn't know what to do with them. She needs something to get the stress off of her mind. Your her stress reducer and in the long run it will increase stress which will be a catastrophy to her children and family. If you have sex with her, you bring yourself to the lowest game. Since she would use you. Your like her pet.. she can do whatever she wants with you. Is that what you want? If you think that it will make her look and bad and not you, that is just foolish. You should stop and realize the truth. Sex is just a hormone response in your pituitary gland. Just a chemical reaction.. fight it like it was a person. Would you cheat on your wife if you were married? You need to work on your mental strength, otherwise your going to go through hell when you get older. Doesn't your martial arts have anything that resolves a lot of strengthening in your mind? If you can itch and scratch yourself in the martial arts institute you go to..that ain't a martial arts. Even if you have an itch.. you have to learn to ignore it. And you know what? It suddenly goes away. I don't know what kind of system your in..but if you have to take 10 seconds to concentrate on the center of a wooden board to break it with your heel..then you can take 2 seconds to focus on something else rather than sex. I would take 10 minutes of the day just to medidate and clear your mind. Look at a certain spot on the wall or on your desk and say a word in your mind that pleases you (Not sex!). Do you have a punching bag? When you feel weak..start punching it, do push ups, sit ups. When someone wants to take you to her house..Say No. If you have to..go... but when you go there.. stiffen your mind up.. know that if you can punch a bag as hard as you can.. and basically kill the feelings from your mind. Haven't you ever gone to a place that you fealt that all these people can whoop your ass? But you stiffened your mind up.. you felt the exhileration, worryiness go through your entire body? Do that when you go in that house. And you won't feel anything..and believe me.. you'll be focused. I look at girls much differently than you do.. I look at them as not just real people but more than that. Unfortunattely most of the pretty ones get corrupted. Corruption is a word I use a lot when it comes to a lot of women I see. And that's where the word, "Ignore", comes into place. Because you can't have a relationship with them and they'll cheat on you even if it looked like they really loved you. Sadly.. the girl your dealing with is corrupted. You have to avoid her. Ignore what your friends have to say.. they just want to see some excitement and hear what happened.