Met on FB, wanna get closer

[Shoma]

So I met an old school mate on FB, we started chatting and we just hit it off perfectly.

I gave her number and for a week now, we've just been texting and chatting whenever we can.

I know this is so middle school but....

How do I know if she's cool with me actually talking to her? I mean I can TEXT a lot of people who I rather not TALK to so Im not sure.

Im really feeling her so I guess that's why im like super hesistant ..

[L.S.D]

Just ask her out.

 

Do not feel the feeling of being rejected. It is part of growing up

[Shoma]

Your wisdom propounds me... I shall meditate to try to remove negative vibes from my mind. I'll give it a shot.....eventually

[L.S.D]

well, you need to be brave to try it out. Out of many rejections, you will eventually find one that willing to go out with you

 

for me, if i like a girl, i tell her straight and said i like to get to know her more. if she has good feeling or comfortable with you, she will give you the chance.

even if it failed, you can still stay friends (but i normally dont )

[Shoma]

well, you need to be brave to try it out. Out of many rejections, you will eventually find one that willing to go out with you

 

for me, if i like a girl, i tell her straight and said i like to get to know her more. if she has good feeling or comfortable with you, she will give you the chance.

even if it failed, you can still stay friends (but i normally dont )

 

Perhaps I'm making my self seem more green that reality has it but I usally meet a girl face to face, and we kill it right there before we leave. Never did a transiction from cyber to phone-- ahh guess its all the same.

 

You start the convo out with giving your intentions, but i prefer a lil more verbal foreplay.

[L.S.D]

well, you need to be brave to try it out. Out of many rejections, you will eventually find one that willing to go out with you

 

for me, if i like a girl, i tell her straight and said i like to get to know her more. if she has good feeling or comfortable with you, she will give you the chance.

even if it failed, you can still stay friends (but i normally dont )

 

Perhaps I'm making my self seem more green that reality has it but I usally meet a girl face to face, and we kill it right there before we leave. Never did a transiction from cyber to phone-- ahh guess its all the same.

 

You start the convo out with giving your intentions, but i prefer a lil more verbal foreplay.

well, i am sure you are more experienced than me i normally state my intention very clearly WITHOUT saying it outright. The hints i give will be very obvious.

if you can get through that the 1st date, it should be smooth sailing after that.

 

If only Fatal Rose is here to advise you , but he is too busy banging China girls as we speak

[gamez fan]

Your wisdom propounds me... I shall meditate to try to remove negative vibes from my mind. I'll give it a shot.....eventually

dont wait to long someone else might beat you to it go for it

[emsley]

If you got her number and have been texting your in.

Just say "Going to "insert fun place" fancy coming along? let me know! Shoma x"

[Krosigrim]

Ah I got this!

 

Listen friend... You said yourself you hit it off perfectly. In order to get to that point, both must be feeling each other in some way. So #1, the (mental) chemistry is there.

 

You said you exchanged #'s and text or whatever, whenever you can. Elaborate. Does she initiate the messages more often... or you? If its her, boom no brainer.

 

There are many types of people, and when there is chemistry in any form you should notice. If you both are able to dialog about pretty much anything... I.E. school, work, family, friends, ideals and so on... Not asking her out is a crime.

 

Ill bet she is wondering why you havent asked already... dont keep her waiting too long

[LoRd_SnOw]

Ask her out, who cares if you get rejected, that's how women turn boys to men.

[emsley]

Ask her out, who cares if you get rejected, that's how women turn boys to men.

 

true storey. Ive been rejected quite a few times I can remember, but right now, it pays off!

I am completely callus to it. (or i do it in a way that safe gaurds that sinking feeling) The only time I will hold back a single tear is if the bitch has been leading me on then fucks me off. but then im prone to irritating her for at least a month.

This rarely happens now as im pretty tuned in, and dont waste my time on dead ends anymore.

 

The only way to get used to something is to do it for your self.

[Shoma]

Well she called me earlier to make a impromptu meeting for coffee but I was working when she called.

This was AFTER I invited her somewhere but she couldn't make it.

So everything looks good, just need to find a frigging good time! lol

School, work and working with kids on the side kinda kill time for me/^^

[emsley]

Well she called me earlier to make a impromptu meeting for coffee but I was working when she called.

This was AFTER I invited her somewhere but she couldn't make it.

So everything looks good, just need to find a frigging good time! lol

School, work and working with kids on the side kinda kill time for me/^^

 

This just happened to me!!! I'm 30 years old and I just got rejected.

I got her number, we talked on facebook for a while, then I "upped the stakes" I sent a few funny texts to her made her laugh etc (wherever she was laughing or not remains a mystery) then I did not text her for a few days.

Re opened her, got good feeling, and used my classic line "I'm walking my dog tomorrow in the park, come with me if you like!" (in the past this has worked 7/10 times)

 

Reply was luke warm at best, then began the "excuses" I said do you work? She replied "part time" it was like pulling fucking teeth. She had a kid, blah blah, " have to take kid to insert random fucking place" It annoys me as I know im doing them a favour when they have a kid (keep high status but not arrogant) I understand how important their children are to them as mothers, and "who they let it in"

 

So i remembered the "desperation rule" and though "fuck you not meeting on Wednesday ok ill try another day" (i dont like to give up on the first knock back)

 

So I thought fuck it, im too old and wise for this shit, either show some tits or im going to forget you.

She was interested in meeting me at the local pub for a few "happy drinks" but then I got the cock block "the guy who is my kids dad goes in there drinking."

 

Bye!

 

A few weeks later I used facebook as my retribution tool status read " I just got the ultimate cock block Christina Perri - Jar Of Hearts song. FFS. Those shields are strong but I will defy them. I will defy." (yes this really happened)

 

Her = small tear.

 

They hate it, they see I get a good looking girl at least once a year (i hold out for the nice good looking ones) and when you are with someone then thats when they suddenly appear open to your approaches. Idiots.