Shaken up

[HooplaDeLaHoundDog]

When kids are involved, some people gotta do what they gotta do. And I wasn't saying that what you said was bad or anything. I wasn't dissing you at all, by all means, I'm not here to offend anyone. I probably should have read other people's responses first. I just read what was on the first page and was appalled by this other person's craziness.

I apologize if I offended you in anyway, but I am no "n00b" to say the least.

[Hera]

You e-mailed her telling her you where willing to help her. Even offered her rides so that she would eventually learn how to help herself. Making her life harder than it already is (by pressing charges) won't help much and will further spread that barrier you two already have. I know it sounds stupid, and you still have to forgive yourself, but try forgiving her for the stupid shit she did.

 

I'd still be willing to help her if she hadn't of pulled a knife on me in front of my kid. I forgive her already because I know the kind of problems she has. But I'm still going to press charges. She has to learn that there are repercussions for the things she does. No bad deed should be left unpunished in my opinion.

 

I'm not going to file a restraining order however. That way there would still be a chance for apologies (on both ends) and perhaps her wanting help. I honestly don't see that happening but who knows?

Edited September 29, 2009 by Hera

[veristic]

Might I also add that we are glad you and your kids were not injured or worse during this debacle.

[Hera]

Might I also add that we are glad you and your kids were not injured or worse during this debacle.

 

Thank you. I am too.

 

It's amazing what a pissed off mommy can do lol

 

A crippled one at that!

Edited September 29, 2009 by Hera

[Cominus]

When kids are involved, some people gotta do what they gotta do. And I wasn't saying that what you said was bad or anything. I wasn't dissing you at all, by all means, I'm not here to offend anyone. I probably should have read other people's responses first. I just read what was on the first page and was appalled by this other person's craziness.

I apologize if I offended you in anyway, but I am no "n00b" to say the least.

 

It's kool brah, Im not a cry baby like *cough*xplosive*cough*, so now that we've made up can we haz sexy time?

[Xavier Chaser]

heya, as a fellow christian i think you have done all you can.

yes, myabe you could of been a bit nicer about it, but im not one to talk im quick to get angry myself.

i would suggest pushing charges, mainly because sometimes hard time is the only way to straighten someone out, i've learnt this through experience, something that may help you feel a bit better about this is god said to help the evil doer, you have helped them (being the brother and girlfriend) all you can and maybe sometime in lock up will help them clean up and take the meds. plus i think keeping them away from your house is possibly the best idea, A) because of your daughter and because that way your friend will still have a safe place to run to wen the brother and girlfriend go crazy...

 

I'm with the pray idea, hand it all over to god im sure he will point you in the right direction, have faith.

with prayers

XC

[Hera]

heya, as a fellow christian i think you have done all you can.

yes, myabe you could of been a bit nicer about it, but im not one to talk im quick to get angry myself.

i would suggest pushing charges, mainly because sometimes hard time is the only way to straighten someone out, i've learnt this through experience, something that may help you feel a bit better about this is god said to help the evil doer, you have helped them (being the brother and girlfriend) all you can and maybe sometime in lock up will help them clean up and take the meds. plus i think keeping them away from your house is possibly the best idea, A) because of your daughter and because that way your friend will still have a safe place to run to wen the brother and girlfriend go crazy...

 

I'm with the pray idea, hand it all over to god im sure he will point you in the right direction, have faith.

with prayers

XC

 

Thanks a lot

 

I appreciate it.

 

Welcome to the forum. Although, not really a welcoming topic hah.

 

Always nice to meet new people!