It seems that my friend can't connect to me. I think the reason why is because of the router. I can change the configuration on ut because my dad's g/f works for Intel from home and Intel has a policy of keeping their info top secret. So they gave her the router thats how I'm on wireless. The only way I see around this is to hook the xbox directly to the modem. So this will be at night and also people will have to tell me when they are going to try. Also I am going to keep the ftp running just in case its just him not neing able to get on.