Being there for someone in Gossip Café [/offtopic] Posted September 7, 2009 I don't think you should be worrying yourself this much over it. From what you say, she initiated it. Yeah, it takes two to do the deed in most cases, but she is running on the border of rape. hahaShe probably feels worse about it than you do. But what you need to do, is, the next time a chick thinks that they have to have sex with you for what ever reason, and you don't want it, try denying them, and doing what you can to make a concious effort to avoid it if you regret it this much in the end. If you have to be a douche bag in doing so, then do it. Think about yourself, and your feelings, and how it's going to effect you in the long run. Don't think about this one chick who want to be your one night stand. A tip though, STAY AWAY FROM CHICKS WITH LOW SELF ESTEEM. odds are they'll do you in a heart beat.Also, if you don't want to be with chicks right now, tell em you're gay. Tell em you like hot rods.I think you shouldn't let this worry you like it is. As far as your friend's girlfriend, talk to her. Ask to speak with just her, if you're real worried about her opinion of you. Tell her how you feel. I think she'll appreciate it more that you came and talked to her about it, and didn't just seem like some horn dog just in it for the tang.And if you want to talk to her friend again. Let her know where you stand on this. Just be sincere.Don't fret over things like this, cover you're grounds, and be safe in whatever you do decide to do.