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Fatal Rose

I want my EX back!

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Yes, I said it. I want her back.

 

I've never REALLY wanted to get a girl I used to be with back, no matter how hurtful it was to let them go. I was not REALLY hurt about us ending, but I definitely felt I could have done a better job as a BF. I made way too many rookie mistakes and I cheated on her. Thankfully she broke up with me and she has no idea about what a total piece of trash I am. I'd rather her think anything she likes on how things ended between us.

 

I was doing some research on how to get your ex back... I will paste some interesting things listed on various websites...

10 Mistakes You Must Stop Now To Have Any Chance At Winning Back Your Lover...

http://www.datingadvicesecrets.com/men/10-...-with-ex-lover/

MISTAKE #1: Acting Overly Nice And Believing It Makes You A Great Catch

I don't think I am doing that, we hardly talk. We seldom send text messages to each other and we seldom talk on QQ. I just act polite and casual. Not overly nice.

MISTAKE #2: Trying To Persuade Your Ex To Come Back With Logic

Not doing this.. It's probably not logical for her to be with me anyways.

MISTAKE #3: Playing The Role Of Human Doormat

Absolutely not.

MISTAKE #4: Showering Your Ex With Flowers And Gifts

Nope not doing this either.

MISTAKE #5: Saying “I Love You” Every 5 Minutes

I've never told a girl that.

MISTAKE #6: Missing The Whole Point Of Chemistry

I am confident I can pull this off with any girl I am into.

MISTAKE #7: Giving Your Ex All Your Power

I think I made that mistakes a couple times when we were together, I also reacted way too emotionally to certain things that happened. Totally out of character.

MISTAKE #8: The Looks And Money Trap

Not sure what to say about this to be honest. I don't know if either has anything to do with anything in regards to me and my situation with her. I do know I've never tried to use money to win a girl over.

MISTAKE #9: Mis-Reading The Cues

Don't think this has ever been a problem for me. But at times I am oblivious when a girl is feeling me.

MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP

Obviously I am seeking help. :)

 

Ok lets move on to another site/selection of tips...

How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back

http://www.wikihow.com/Get-Your-Ex-Girlfriend-Back

Don't get too jealous.

I don't usually.

Leave Her Alone

Already have done this.

Cut off all communication

Already did this too.

Recover Emotionally.

I feel recovered.

Start talking to another girl.

Done this too. I've already had sex with two different girls too.

Act like nothing is wrong.

Doing this.

Look your best

I've cleaned up again.

Build up confidence

I'm confident.

If you want to get her back, then you should be the Alpha male.

I have a ton more confidence now, back when we first got together I was out of practice and clingy.

Figure out why one or both of you left.

I was too emotional, clingy, complained a lot, argues too much, I was an emotional puss-tard, I was not myslef.

 

Ok here's one more for the road...

http://www.askmen.com/top_10/dating/2_dating_list.html

 

10. Reach out and touch her

Done this, I called her today.

9. E-mail her

Difficult to do when I don't know her email. I can QQ her though.

8. Don't "frequent" other girls

.... (at least she has no idea)

7. Don't ever forget birthdays or anniversaries

:) Crap! Need to get on this!

6. Call her every now and then

Just called her today for the first time in a long time.

5. Analyze and study her

I'll get to it!

4. Don't be jealous; be on the look-out

I'm not the jealous type.

3. Don't play games

I'll try.

2. Hold your cards to your chest

Will do.

1. Stay in shape and improve yourself

Done this and continuing to do so..

 

 

So what do all of you make of this?

I know to many of you she may not seem like anything special, but to me she is amazing. Many people tell me she is not even that attractive, but to me she is BEAUTIFUL!!

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Leave Her Alone
10. Reach out and touch her

 

WTF?! it's one or the other. all those lists are retarded. there is no secret. you can either

A: forget it. (best choice)

B: guilt her in to taking you back. (won't last long)

C: cry until she gives you a mercy bang.

 

I'm sure Paul will come in here with a wall of text about alpha males and backhanded complements juking her into wanting you above food and water.

I don't buy any of that crap though. sometimes you don't get any choice in the matter. if she's done for good. you're just spinning your wheels.

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and also.... those pics prove the magic of makeup. doesn't even look like the same girl.

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Maybe it's meant as leave her alone for a while and eventually contact her after some time.

 

She was the first to contact me after we broke up.

 

Man I just don't know what to do.

 

:)

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Lol too much to process. Good luck bro.

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and also.... those pics prove the magic of makeup. doesn't even look like the same girl.

 

Really? haha

 

I only see a small difference. I prefer the pic without the makeup. I'm not into the heavy makeup thing. While we were together she hardly wore any.

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Lol too much to process. Good luck bro.

 

Come on buddy, you have to give me something.

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Lol too much to process. Good luck bro.

 

Come on buddy, you have to give me something.

Can't say i've got experience trying to win a girl back but you might start out being honest. Tell her you fucked up and go from there?

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I dont know anything.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Just kidding, those sites you listed are "ok" but ryan you dont have to read up on this stuff because you are doing it right capeche?

Leave all the website stuff alone!!! you dont need it.

 

as far as im aware you two are quite far apart right?

If your still in "magnetic phase" with each other you'll find a way.

You parted on good terms so there is no reason really you two cant get back together.

Other than that you just have to contact her, but dont declare your undying love for her is all i can suggest, keep it simple, keep it neat.

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Thanks Paul. You always give me quality advice. So when should I contact her again? Should I wait till she contacts me?

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just call her up, tell her your missing her just a "little" bit when she asks what your doing you can be honest and say your on toilet or you can lie, "im getting ready togo out to "insert fun place" , it would be good ifyou could get her to come to you, what are the chances of that?

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