Alright I will give you that, they want to wait for prince charming, but most of the time they don't realize that prince charming is usually already locked down. If hes not then hes probably making you his mistress on the side.
Women will always want what they want, you cant control their demands. I know my wife was one of those "I don't want anything" to now having an ipad mini and iphone 5S along with everything else because she wants to be spoiled. Its really about preventing it all from happening all at once.
As for their requirements I have encountered this in the past, and most times I am able to get past those requirements. At the end of the day women only want to be entertained and have fun. They can find that with someone outside their realm of requirements.
My wife finds Tom Hiddleston attractive. So much so that she is obsessiving over him. I could care less who shes fanboying over, but from the aspect of other women hes not attractive.
I usually don't fall into the "hot" category so I know the rejection, the most common word usage with me is "Cute" and I can live with that. Its allowed me to be successful in the past so im not terribly worried about that. Toned, I would say my arms are, but I'm definitely packing a beer keg right now. I'm not tall 5'6'' - 5'7' but I would rarely go for someone taller than my anyways with my own preference. I don't have tattoo's but I make due. Haven't had any complaints yet.
I honestly think it comes down to approach. Everyone has their own approach and some women want to be approached in a specific way.
I'll use your example as my example. A mother on a dating site. She isn't looking for love, thats what got her pregnant. She is looking to spend some time with an adult and have fun. She probably hasn't been able to go out in a couple years and is really missing it. I would suggest an opening that screams "lets have fun" and she will most definitely sign up. Unless you look creepy. Another thing about this is that you would have to be open to her bringing her child if she is unable to find a sitter. She will do all she can to leave the child with a sitter anyways. But be open to it. The next thing is that as long as you have fun with her its almost a surely a sealed deal unless she plays hard to get. Remember shes there to interact with an adult. She wants to experience adult
Edited by Phased, 17 April 2014 - 05:55 PM.