I just started dating this girl in her late 20s who's a virgin and does oral sex. She wants to remain a virgin until she gets married. Normally, I wouldn't mind. However, she's really clingy, and bores me with her talk (which took me a few dates to realize). When it comes to intimacy -- during kissing it's a constant "yes, no, yes, no, yes, no" ... until you want to bang your head against the wall from confusion. Once she says no, I stop... then she starts sucking on my arm, then starts kissing me, groping me, and it starts all over again.
If I touch her vajay, it's a quick arm pull away, and I'm reminded that's for "exclusivity", since we're only dating. Honestly, I don't even want oral sex with this woman. I can imagine the mass texting and bullshit that will ensue due to her sudden "emotional attachment". Damn, if I stay longer and manage to snatch her virginity -- she's probably going to ask for marriage!
I'm ready to dump this girl. Anybody got any experience or advice for women like this?