can we discuss em here? If so I am trying to find a well populated one.

Good luck, their all buggy sadly and all running a version or 2 back from the official servers.

I'm on one now thats only one patch back. and pretty stable but there just aren't a whole lot of peeps on most I've seen is around 1200. and most are of course lvl 70 so they are concentrated in the high level areas.

don't like em at all

The best servers are WoW like with slow xp gain (so it takes a 2-3 weeks to cap) and then to be able to match still costs $$$ (donations).

The fast xp servers sometimes even have skills that don't work!